When things fall apart...and you pick up the pieces...and they continue to fall...and the recipient of your assistance refuses to see their internal thinking--evaluate their approach--insistence that they are not responsible...when you continue to pick up those pieces and hope for the best, what are the consequences. I liken this to a form of non-action, a passivity, a watchful eye that is not proactive in anyway. Do you let things fall so far and fast and in some capacity stay attuned to what needs to be done...or...do you push the individual to stand tall, see straight, steer clear...or...what is the appropriate life lesson...unknown.
Striving to keep the internal peace, breathe deeply, find the strength to keep an uplifted spirit.
When does that moment come for most...when the words, "This is your life" means something far more than getting your way and being self-consumed.
Onward.